Author: Ayaémon

  • ‘If Only I Had More Money.’: How Do We Realize It Without Money?

    ‘If Only I Had More Money.’: How Do We Realize It Without Money?

    In an earlier article (this article), I explained why the wish ‘If only I had more money’ causes stagnation. Then, I noticed that it has two contradictory aspects that prevent us from changing. Today, I will talk about it. How to solve the money problem Sometimes, we want to solve the money problem when heading…

  • Explaining Why Independence Doesn’t Require Boldness

    Explaining Why Independence Doesn’t Require Boldness

    Now, I am trying to build a more independent way of life. This is interesting. It reassures me. In addition, it allows me to be freer. Today, I will talk about why independence doesn’t require boldness. How to be bolder to be independent Sometimes, we want more boldness to take action to live more independently.…

  • The Logic of Why the Wish ‘If Only I Had More Money’ Causes Stagnation

    The Logic of Why the Wish ‘If Only I Had More Money’ Causes Stagnation

    In the previous article (this article), I mentioned the feeling of ‘For now, let’s go as far as I can.’ This is a rational way to proceed in unknown environments. Today, I will talk about the opposite: the cause that creates stagnation. How to solve the stagnation caused by money Sometimes, we want more money…

  • Living Honestly With Oneself: The Life for People Who Love Self-Reliance

    Living Honestly With Oneself: The Life for People Who Love Self-Reliance

    The way toward independence is more interesting than I thought. There are many discoveries, and that allowed me to live more easily. Today, I will talk about it from the perspective of honesty with ourselves. How to live honestly Sometimes, we want to live honestly, especially with ourselves. Lying to others but also ourselves stresses…

  • Independent Lifestyle That Makes the Most of Differences

    Independent Lifestyle That Makes the Most of Differences

    Now I am enjoying thinking of the lifestyle of independence. It would be a way of life for people with individuality. Today, I will talk about it from the perspective of using differences. What kind of life suits us? Sometimes, we want to know what kind of life suits us, especially if we have individuality.…

  • Survive: The Only Evaluation for Those Who Live Independently

    Survive: The Only Evaluation for Those Who Live Independently

    I recently understood that life heading toward independence suited me, so I began to seek such a way of life. Today, I will introduce a part of the lifestyle. How to stop caring about others Sometimes, we want to stop caring about others, especially when we are exhausted in social life. Although making others happy…