Author: Ayaémon
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Is It Bad to Not Be Focused On Something?
Recently, I mentioned the nature of focusing too much several times. Today, I will talk about another state: lack of concentration. Is there any value in not being focused? Sometimes, we want to know how to use our individuality. If we find it difficult to live, it means that our individuality doesn’t match some parts…
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The Whole Process of How We Got a Mental Complex From Parents
Recently, I have talked about the imbalances of our wants. Today, I will explain it from the perspective of a mental complex. How to solve our mental complex Sometimes, we want to solve our mental complex. It suffers us mentally, such as with low self-esteem, perfection, fear of failure, or approval-seeking behaviors. Although we make…
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Growth Over Education: A Style for Independence
Recently, I have been considering how to live more independently. Today, I will talk about it from the perspective of education and growth. What lifestyle will it be if we live independently? Sometimes, we want to know how to be more independent and distant from society. Social life, such as a disgusting job, caring for…
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Being Absorbed Enough to Forget to Sleep and Eat: It Might Not Be So Bad
I updated this blog’s design. If you find troubles, please tell me through the contact form. In the previous article (this article), I mentioned immersing ourselves in something until forgetting to sleep and eat. Although I used to think it was a bad habit and had to stop, I recently changed my mind. Today, I…
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Being In a Feedback Loop of Happiness: How to Grow Up Steadily and Comfortably
In recent articles, I mentioned a state that I call a feedback loop of happiness several times. It is a state that allows us to grow up comfortably. Today, I will talk about it in more detail. How to grow ourselves without stress Sometimes, we want to grow ourselves without stress. Developing our own potential…
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Explaining Why Deciding by Mood Is Useful for People Who Want Independence
In the previous article (this article), I explained we can decide based on our moods as long as we head toward independence. This was a discovery for me because I also thought that moving by mood is worthless. However, there was a good way to use it. Today, I will add an explanation of why…