Author: Ayaémon

  • Waste Your Time Logically: The Essence of Relaxation

    Waste Your Time Logically: The Essence of Relaxation

    I started to live at my parents’ house five days ago. Although the time with my parents is unproductive, I am enjoying it. It is making up for what I have been missing in my mind for a long time. That experience taught me the essence of relaxation. Let’s talk about it. How to relax…

  • Why I Became Able to Apologize Without Mental Pain

    Why I Became Able to Apologize Without Mental Pain

    The habit of making rational judgments freed me from many mental pains. One example is that I became able to apologize to others without blaming myself. Let’s talk about it. How to respond to unreasonable accusations Sometimes, we want to deal with others’ unacceptable behavior. Many people, such as parents, teachers, and bosses, insist without…

  • The Process of Endless Loop Thinking: How to Stop Mental Exhaustion

    The Process of Endless Loop Thinking: How to Stop Mental Exhaustion

    In the previous article (this article), I mentioned an unstoppable loop of emotional thinking triggered by others’ negative emotions. Let’s look at the process more deeply. How to stop emotional exhaustion Sometimes, we want to stop mental exhaustion caused by our intense empathy. Others’ negative emotions, such as anger, complaint, sadness, and lament, dominate our…

  • How I Have Started to Feel After I Eliminated Mental Confusion

    How I Have Started to Feel After I Eliminated Mental Confusion

    I started living with my parents two days ago. Due to a poor internet connection at this house, there could be days when updates are impossible. Sorry if that happens. I am creating a new life and have discovered a difference in my feelings: a decrease in empathic stress. Let’s talk about it. What creates…

  • An Introduction to Yanai City, Where I Currently Live

    An Introduction to Yanai City, Where I Currently Live

    I moved to my parents’ house yesterday and settled down. Since I plan to stay for a few weeks, I brought only my PC and some clothing. This place is not bad! Let’s look at the place where I currently live. About Yanai City I temporarily moved from Kitsuki City, Oita Prefecture, to Yanai City,…

  • Avoid Making Judgments When Excited: How to Be More Rational

    Avoid Making Judgments When Excited: How to Be More Rational

    I cannot update this blog since I am moving to my parents’ home now. This is an article I wrote and scheduled several days ago. Let’s talk about how to increase our rationality. How to be more rational Sometimes, we want to be more rational. Rationality calms us down and improves our lives steadily. However,…