I decided to live with my parents for a while and will move to their house tomorrow. This article is the final one before migration, although I don’t know where I will live in the end.
Let’s wrap up these months and talk about how to live well for those empathic and logical people.
How to live well
I had a problem. I wanted to know how to live well. My unique individuality, such as high empathy and logical sense, prevented me from living the same way as my surroundings.
In other words, I had to find my way of living.
If you like this blog, you might have the same desire as I.
That is why we want to know how to live well.
Today, let me introduce the word I want to tell you now. This is my current feeling about how to fulfill our lives.
The three concepts I like best
Let’s finish savoring the rewards and move on to the next stage.
This is my word at this moment.
I created many new concepts these months, and three of them I like best are the following:
- Cultivate logical sense to resolve empathic problems. (Finding the ‘sun’)
- Savor the pleasures you accumulated and bring them to an end. (The laws of pudding, 1st and 3rd law)
- Give up your hope and judge rationally. (The meaning of giving up in Buddhism)
I will omit the detailed explanation, but these concepts form the basis of who I am today.
Developing logical sense
Although our intense empathy causes our mental suffering, focusing on empathy doesn’t solve it. We have to cultivate logical sense. That clears our inner confusion.
It means spirituality doesn’t solve our mental problems if we are empathic and logical. It is for those who are empathic but not logical.
The more rationally we decide, the more we can control our emotions. This is the biggest discovery in my life, and it solved my mental problems.
It brought a sudden change to my life. A slight modification improved my satisfaction dramatically. It includes this move as well. I was reconciled with my parents and decided to live with them for a while.
I also decided to use up the abundance I had saved without wasting it. I realized that they are rewards for the effort I have put in so far. There is no need to wait for another trigger to enjoy them.
Relaxation and change
Once I started to enjoy them, I was able to relax.
They brought me special days. I experienced calm joys in life. Although they were not exciting, they were fulfilling.
After finishing them, reality began to change.
The same goes for things we don’t like. We don’t have to wait for another trigger to stop exhausting activities. Accepting mistakes can sometimes become a reward.
In other words, even the painful days are special days. They are exciting but unfulfilling if we have intense empathy.
After separating from these excitements, reality begins to change.
It means we have to give up hope. However, we should know we can be happy even without it. Hope belongs to empathy. Pursuing hope was one cause of emotional suffering. We need to reduce hope and increase curiosity and rationality to balance our lives.
Conclusion
This is the current answer to how to fulfill our lives.
Let’s finish savoring the rewards and move on to the next stage.
That is the final word before my migration.
Although we don’t know what the future holds, we can improve our lives.
Let’s go to the next stage and find the new logic that fulfills us.
Thank you for reading this article. I hope to see you in the next one.
