Category: Changing life

  • Why We Feel Misunderstood When We Are Respected

    Why We Feel Misunderstood When We Are Respected

    Finding the differences in personality is one of my hobbies. Everyone has different senses and circumstances. However, everyone believes that their senses and circumstances are the norm. That belief causes many misunderstandings and mysteries among people. It is fun for me to unveil such mysteries. Recently, I experienced such a case. Let’s talk about it.…

  • Ignore Your Favorite: How to Create a New Version of Yourself

    Ignore Your Favorite: How to Create a New Version of Yourself

    I started to sew a new bag yesterday. This is my fourth bag. During that process, I had an interesting experience and discovery that told me how to find my new aspects. Let’s talk about it. How to have a new aspect of self Sometimes, we want to have a new aspect of self. We…

  • How to Ignore Others’ Misfortunes That We Don’t Need to Be Involved In

    How to Ignore Others’ Misfortunes That We Don’t Need to Be Involved In

    As I live rationally, I started to ignore others’ misfortunes. Although it may sound like I am cold-hearted, that style gave me a balanced living. Let’s talk about it. How to avoid unnecessary empathizing Sometimes, we feel a sense of helplessness, especially when we see others’ misfortunes that we cannot solve. An example is news…

  • Why Our Mission in Life Doesn’t Have to Be Heroic

    Why Our Mission in Life Doesn’t Have to Be Heroic

    In the previous article (this article), I introduced a broader, historical perspective. It shows our ignorance, and that awareness turns fear of the unknown into curiosity. In other words, rationality frees us from the guilt of ignorance. Today, let’s talk about the desire for a mission in life. Being freed from the mission in life…

  • Focus on Ignorance Rather Than Fear: How to Enjoy the Unknowns

    Focus on Ignorance Rather Than Fear: How to Enjoy the Unknowns

    Managing emotions was one of the themes of my life. A typical example is the fear of change. Despite our desire to change, it hinders us. Fortunately, I have recently realized that rationality calms our emotions. That experience told me that being aware of our ignorance turns fear into curiosity. However, I could not describe…

  • How to Eliminate Fear of Being Compared

    How to Eliminate Fear of Being Compared

    In the previous article (this article), I showed you my second sewing work. Although it is still unskilled, I realized that there is no fear of being compared to other bags. Let’s talk about it. How to reduce the fear of comparison Sometimes, we want to reduce the fear of being compared to others. Even…