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Recovery Skills Over Not Failing: A Style for Those Who Do Various Things
Since I have to go to my brother’s pastry shop and help him today, let’s talk about something that impressed me recently. How to reduce the fear of failure Sometimes, we want to reduce the fear of failure and do everything perfectly. However, it can sometimes be difficult and prevent you from taking action. In…
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How I Solved the Relationship With My Mother: Treating Rationality as a Language
I have started living rationally since last year, and it improved my life dramatically in the short term. Surprisingly, almost all of my problems, including money, work, and human relationships, have been resolved. One example was the relationship with my mother. It was one root cause of my mental confusion. Let’s introduce how I solved…
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How I Learned the Second Language: The Impression of Having Written English for Three Years in This Blog
It has been over three years since I opened this blog, and I have become used to writing in English, which is my second language. Let’s talk about the effective learning method from my personal experience. How to master a second language Sometimes, we want to master a second language. It broadens our perspectives and…
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Identifying Essential Problems of Others Takes Time: How I Found the Areas for Improvement
Improving one’s life is a process of identifying one’s misunderstandings and mistakes rather than proving oneself right. I am still correcting my own. Recently, I experienced one such example. Let’s talk about it. How to succeed in helping others Sometimes, we want to help someone in need. Making someone happy brings us joy, especially if…
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How to Find the Third Option Beyond the Two Difficult Choices in Front of You
In the previous article (this one), I introduced how to create options. Inappropriate choices cause inner conflicts. Since yesterday’s explanation was difficult to understand, let’s clarify it with simpler examples. How to reduce the stress of making a decision Sometimes, we want to be freed from the two final choices that exhaust us. Although they…
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Create Options Based on Rationality Rather Than Desires: How to Stop Struggling With Choices
I went to my brother’s pastry shop and helped him over the past two days. While preparing cookie dough, I also started tidying up his shop’s cluttered factory and warehouse. Since I love organizing chaotic situations, it was fulfilling. However, I needed to help without stimulating his inferiority complex. That made me consider my supporting…
Let’s find the logic that fulfills us.