I am finally settling down, although I still have to organize my messy rooms and don’t have enough time to explore this area. I can always see the beach and the sea on the way to the grocery stores. That pleases my heart.
Today, I will talk about something spiritual to change our future.
How to treat negative events
Sometimes, we want to avoid negative events, such as failing, making losses, being discouraged, being disliked by others, or having misfortunes.
Whenever we have such events, we wish for good fortune. In other words, the more we are in a state of hoping for good fortune, the more it means we are in a state of suffering.
We usually refuse those ‘bad’ events and fight against them to maintain our best state, but that exhausts us. We don’t want to leave it to fate. We know we have to change something.
However, we sometimes don’t know what to change and how to do it. That keeps us doing the same and stagnates.
In such a case, we can follow fate instead of struggling with destiny. This concept could allow us to accept changes and graduate from the old environment, which is already unsuited for us.
Using fate efficiently instead of struggling with destiny
If we have individuality, following fate instead of fighting against destiny might be an efficient way to live our lives.
Many people don’t like the term fate because we will stop making an effort. We want to fight to change our future.
However, we have to distinguish between fate and destiny.
- Fate is events or outcomes that are predetermined and unavoidable. The farther away we are from society, the more our fate affects us.
- Destiny is a future that can be changed by our decisions and actions. The more we interact with society, the more we need to make efforts to change.
In other words, fate is not a social event, and destiny is. If we want an independent life from society, giving up making efforts and accepting fate could help us.
Giving up making an effort to be independent
We don’t need to make efforts to use our individuality. Whenever we show our individuality, we feel energetic and alive. It is different from making efforts that force us to be patient.
Living with fate is living naturally without being involved in social troubles. We use our natural talent instead of making efforts. On the other hand, struggling against destiny is usually a life in which we deny reality and our natural emotional reaction. If we want to live naturally with our individuality, we have to give up fighting against destiny.
We cannot escape from our individuality. It means we will have unchangeable results based on our circumstances, no matter how we struggle.
However, we don’t know how it ends. It could be a happy ending but also be a tragedy.
This acceptance allows us to use our talents instead of imitating others, regardless of the outcome. In other words, we can live as we are.
My recent experience of feeling some great guidance
If we accept and follow fate, we sometimes experience our future suddenly unfolding. We could have multiple good fortune encounters.
This may be because our fate begins to activate. Fate is a path that allows us to show our talents. Fate will affect us, especially when we head toward independence.
Each time we have such fortunate events that we can use our talents, we will feel something great guides us. They will happen continuously. We might feel as if they are happening at the perfect time.
My dream of living in the countryside
In my case, I felt such fate many times. Recently, I was forced to leave the house I lived in. I felt that was a bad event because I had to spend money. That was a loss.
On the other hand, I also wanted to live in more countryside. I wished for a quiet life in a peaceful area by the sea. Although I wanted to make it happen as early as possible, the only plan I had was to save money and buy a house somewhere.
Then, after I moved, I noticed I accomplished such a dream I had. I made it at minimal expense. Although it cost, after I accepted the expense, I felt the cost didn’t hurt at all. I noticed I was able to realize my wish sooner than expected.
This is the feeling of following the fate. We don’t know how it ends. I cannot rely on my superficial judgments. An event has multiple aspects. An event that is bad for our money could be good for our dreams. Accepting sadness may improve our futures.
This acceptance allows us to live our lives, regardless of the outcome. This would be a good aspect of following fate.
Conclusion
We can follow fate instead of struggling with destiny.
Living with fate is living naturally without being involved in social troubles. We use our natural talent instead of making efforts.
That could allow us to accept changes and graduate from the old environment, which is already unsuited for us.
Thank you for reading this article. I hope to see you in the next one.
