Category: Changing life
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A Tool Has a Soul: How to Quickly Master the Use of Tools
I recently started sewing as a hobby and am now struggling with the sewing machine. It doesn’t work as I imagined! That made me think of how to master tools quickly. Let’s talk about it. How to master tools quickly Sometimes, we want to master the use of tools quickly. Using tools efficiently is inevitable…
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Why We Feel Misunderstood When We Are Respected
Finding the differences in personality is one of my hobbies. Everyone has different senses and circumstances. However, everyone believes that their senses and circumstances are the norm. That belief causes many misunderstandings and mysteries among people. It is fun for me to unveil such mysteries. Recently, I experienced such a case. Let’s talk about it.…
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Ignore Your Favorite: How to Create a New Version of Yourself
I started to sew a new bag yesterday. This is my fourth bag. During that process, I had an interesting experience and discovery that told me how to find my new aspects. Let’s talk about it. How to have a new aspect of self Sometimes, we want to have a new aspect of self. We…
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How to Ignore Others’ Misfortunes That We Don’t Need to Be Involved In
As I live rationally, I started to ignore others’ misfortunes. Although it may sound like I am cold-hearted, that style gave me a balanced living. Let’s talk about it. How to avoid unnecessary empathizing Sometimes, we feel a sense of helplessness, especially when we see others’ misfortunes that we cannot solve. An example is news…
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Why Our Mission in Life Doesn’t Have to Be Heroic
In the previous article (this article), I introduced a broader, historical perspective. It shows our ignorance, and that awareness turns fear of the unknown into curiosity. In other words, rationality frees us from the guilt of ignorance. Today, let’s talk about the desire for a mission in life. Being freed from the mission in life…
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Focus on Ignorance Rather Than Fear: How to Enjoy the Unknowns
Managing emotions was one of the themes of my life. A typical example is the fear of change. Despite our desire to change, it hinders us. Fortunately, I have recently realized that rationality calms our emotions. That experience told me that being aware of our ignorance turns fear into curiosity. However, I could not describe…
